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Old 03-27-2010, 08:37 PM
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Yeah actually I just really didnt know what to name the thread. About time I figured that people may get the wrong idea it was too late.
You don't have to yak to me about your feelings, but I took them seriously.

I think there is a lot going on here. Multi-level. Most gay people I know have gone through a questioning period even after coming out. Like meditation, coming to terms to one's feelings takes time. It's not a one shot deal. Especially so when there is pressure regarding one's feelings. The desire to be accepted is very strong. It can be difficult to assert one's personhood while also maintaining family ties.

This is why ex-gay stuff is such a tangled mess.
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