Originally Posted by Daniel
You don't have to yak to me about your feelings, but I took them seriously.
I think there is a lot going on here. Multi-level. Most gay people I know have gone through a questioning period even after coming out. Like meditation, coming to terms to one's feelings takes time. It's not a one shot deal. Especially so when there is pressure regarding one's feelings. The desire to be accepted is very strong. It can be difficult to assert one's personhood while also maintaining family ties.
This is why ex-gay stuff is such a tangled mess.
Yeah your right...the whole sexuality topic in general is tangled. It's crazy. It's so interesting when i try to explain some of my ideas to some of my family,they don't understand. I want to explore beyond the gender binary. Beyond the gender queer. I want to understand in all plus more. But as we both know I have to understand myself first.