well now, you've really gone and done it, haven't you? You've allowed yourself to consort with "teh gay" LOL
a few things about your post jump out at me
1. you say you don't know gay people. You do, they just haven't felt comfortable enough with you to clue you in.
2. "lifestyle" is an offensive way to describe our orientation. I can say from experience here that if you continue to use that word, our members will put the smackdown on you!
other than that, jump right in!
Tolerate one another, just as I have tolerated you.- Jesus Christ?