Well I do apologize for my misuse of words, I didn't mean to offend. In regards to comments made though, my position would be in question at church since I am responsible for the education of children. Whether some people were sympathetic or not, it is my churches rule to operate safely in all cases, a good example being we don't have instruments because the new testament doesn't mention them at all. Is it wrong? probably not but they'd rather be safe than sorry.
The relative in question is just a supporter, but shes also not a Christian. This is my main draw back, there really doesn't seem to be a place where I can be a Christian and a supporter of people's right. I think where I'm really in trouble though is I'm also a supporter of people rights to religion as well, Christian or otherwise. I believe in peoples right to pursue their creator in whatever means they seem fit, and I'm not in a hurry to condemn people to hell because of it. So, is there really a place for me in religion?