Soulforce says that you are not accepting messages. Bummer. So I'll put my message here:
There are a lot of places and people out there that can offer you advice on coming out to your parents, but I'm not one of them. I truly wish that I were. You are very likely right in that your most important goal in your life at this time is to build/rebuild your relationship with your parents.
I would like to offer you a short insight into my life, my church, and my home town.
http://www.soulforce.org/forums/showthread.php?t=1093
And I'm sure that myself, and the people here would like to hear about how your life is coming. Please post again.
Peace and Love, BruceChris