[BrianB]

Originally Posted by Snuffy

*happytear* You guys are all so supportive <3 I really didn't get far with my youth leader, and things didn't work out with the girl I liked. She has a boyfriend now (irony. Also, my youth leader thought it was a bit funny, in the ironic sense >.>) but we're still friends. And as I said before, I'm not so sure I'm lesbian or bisexual (one of my friends said I'm 'pansexual' because I love regardless of gender?) but my neurosis is sort of flashing towards insanity, like fits of laughter when I'm crying, hysteria, etc. I don't know, I think I'm just getting impatient waiting for someone to care about me romantically... *end TMI rant?* Sorry I'm laying all my random issues on you guys... ^_^;

It's hard to find someone to talk with about this stuff. The folks here are very patient with someone that is sorting things out. I know from personal experience. I tried using the label pansexual for myself. It's a good description for me but people understand bisexual better. If I'm attracted to a person it doesn't matter what plumbing they have. As for your youth leader just pray for God's best in their life. Maybe you could suggest they pray that for you too. That is how me and my mom ended up. She was very upset about my coming out as bi' but we could both pray that prayer.