I might suggest that one of the best ways to learn things, and find sources of support would be to look at many of the other threads and posts on these forums. Or wait a while, and some of the women here will get back to you.
One of the best sources is probably the "Hello, my name is" forum.
Good luck, BruceChris
"Christianity is not about what you believe, it is about how you treat other people; - with God's love"