Originally Posted by chadp81
How do I find my dream guy? I don't have the slightest idea about how to meet decent guys who are wanting a relationship and not just sex. I've thought about moving to a big city and trying but I still wouldn't know where to start! I don't have any gay friends who could hook me up with a nice guy... What do I do? Ive never been on a "REAL" date, Ive been fixed up with girls in the past but I had no interest in them and didn't enjoy the dates we went on... does it work the same for a guy?
I actually met (or rather found) my fiancÚ on facebook while searching for local, datable gays. I sent him a message, we chatted some online, and ended up deciding to meet publicly face-to-face at a local diner where we hit things off before heading back to my place after and sealing the deal with a kiss.
First dates can involve as much or as little as you like. It's all up to you!
And I have one word of advice for you to find someone: Connexion
. Connexion.org is a free, social networking service for LGBTs, but it primarily serves as a dating website to find other local members and met up with in person. It might be worth trying out before diving into an online, pay-to-use dating service such as Chemistry.com. You might also find someone at one of the above churches I linked to.
Best of luck!