Originally Posted by ireland
No absolutly nothing wrong with falling in love. No she doesnt blame me for the way shes feeling, i just feel bad i guess when i see her hurting and i cant help. She is currently getting counselling, for other issues, and she has spoke to her counsellor about this but from what i gather the counsellor understands how her family is and the situation, which to be honest i would have thought they would see this as an unhealthy situation but what would i know. I guess i kinda hoped they would try and change her mindset into a healthy one.
As for work, yeah we do get our work done and it can be difficult at times. I have no intention of loosing my job, or her hers, jobs are very precious at the moment. Iv never met anyone through work before so its all new to me.
If her counselor is a 'christian' counselor, then I doubt very much that she (?) would be in favor of accepting her orientation. Of course this is third hand, but the counselor has no business 'understanding' the parents. Her JOB is to help the patient understand herself. That said, the counselor is going to take her or his lead from the patient. It's all up to her in the end.
You are in a very difficult situation seeing that the person you have feelings for also works with you. Some would tell you to break things off and keep your distance. Truly, no one can tell you what to do. Again: I encourage you to get very very quiet so as to listen to you intuition/inner guidance.