Originally Posted by ireland
I have no idea if the counsellor is a chriastian or not. Yeah to be honest if someone came to me and asked my advice on this situation id say 'break it off' tho now im in the situation thats not so easy. The love is too strong to just walk away.
A wise counselor to me once said this: "If you listen closely to someone, you will notice that they will tell you what their problem is and how to deal with it, and then they will ignore it."
Common sense is telling you to pull back. However, you've become 'emeshed'. And since you work together, the 'problem' is in your face all the time.
I suggest you pull back at least far enough to get your bearings.