[BrianB]

Originally Posted by ireland

I have no idea if the counsellor is a chriastian or not. Yeah to be honest if someone came to me and asked my advice on this situation id say 'break it off' tho now im in the situation thats not so easy. The love is too strong to just walk away.

I can understand someone being scared to come out. It took me years and years to accept my orientation and tell my parents. Once done it was the most freeing thing ever in my life! It was extremely hard but I had several people supporting me. If she can at least consider the idea of coming out I might hang on. Ask her to picture in her mind how she would tell her parents. Maybe you can give her ideas or role play with her. If she won't even picture it then there isn't too much hope.