Originally Posted by pnggrad79
Tonight she texted my youngest daughter and accused her of"leeching" off of her for many years, and threatened that if we weren't out of the house by Aug. 1 she would call the police and have us evicted, plus she would throw everything out on the front lawn. I swear she is behaving like a monster. Needless to say, she made my daughter cry and I said, it is one thing to hurt me but hurt my kid, that's crossing a line. Kyrie, my youngest, said, "I swear Mom, if you ever go back to her, I will never speak to you again." I said, "After all the shit she has dealt me, I will never go back to her."
I see my therapist on Tuesday, and tell her that I have been doing some research on people who abandon their spouses not only once but 4 times, and all it pulls up is Narcissism. I think she has gone to the dark side and will never be redeemed. I don't like the person she has become in the last 2 months. All she does is issue threats and tries to blackmail us into complying with her demands.
I don't know where any of this hostility is coming from.
ok. we get it. she's mean. the break up is nasty.
now. what about all the advice you've been given? what are you going to do with it? are you seeking a therapist?
I'm a firm believer in operant conditioning. getting a reward for a behavior increases the likelihood that you will perform that behavior again. What reward are you getting from all this drama?
Conflict requires your participation.