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My daughter's bf was very unkind to ex last night and now she blames me for his comments. He was basically defending my daughter because ex threatened to dump all of her things out on the front lawn if we weren't out of the house by Aug. 1. She didn't follow through as I am finding out, she rarely does follow thru with her more noxious threats. She did order the electricity cut off and then when the meat in the fridge and freezer melted and got all over the place, she expects me to clean it up. I thought well, it is my house too so I should help clean it up. My daughters were livid and said She cut the electricity cut off, she needs to clean up after it." I was conflicted.

So while cleaning up, she came over and helped me and then daughter's bf refused to take the trash to the dumpster and told her it was her fault this all happened. She came back into me and proceeded to yell and scream and throw things for the next 30 minutes calling me names and him names and saying mean things about my girls. I felt it best to just shut the hell up instead of making her angrier.

She said that the only reason he even said anything to her was because in her assumption, I put those ideas in his head. So I was ultimately responsible for what bf said to ex. I can't win. I never could win. I guess it really is over.
But I have said that before, too...