[bnmoore]

Originally Posted by antiochian

She's always been very supportive and accepting, so I'm guessing she's probably embarassed. How do I handle this whole situation? I'm not sure now if I still consider this man my friend, but I'm very close to Linda, and this whole thing is just touchy. Generally, whenever I get together with her, he's there, too. I'm not going to backdown from my position, of course, but I want to preserve my relationship with Linda if possible.

I would at least "unfriend" them both as he may possibly have access to her FB account. Even in 3D his presence would taint your friendship with her since he's shown his true colors. If you want to continue your relationship with her you could respectfully request his absence. You can say "no thanks" gracefully. She knows who she's dating.