This reminds me of a line from one of Ray Boltz' songs; "...Who would Jesus hate?" No wonder Anne was/is confused about her sexuality. Her mother is at best crazy and at worst malicious.
"Beloved let us tolerate one another. For tolerance is of God and everyone that tolerates is born of God and knows God. He that tolerates not, knows not God for God is tolerance." 1 John 4:7,8