Being "out" and honest is a very freeing experience isn't it? I have not for one second regretted coming out two years ago even though there were some difficult times at the beginning.
I am very happy in my Episcopal church. Also I am warmly welcomed at the Catholic church at which I am a musician. I have heard some gays say that they can't find a church that welcomes them. My experience is that many churches are affirming, and one just needs to look. I hope that you will find a place quickly where you will feel loved.
Sorry I am so late in welcoming you to the forums.
May God's blessings be on your life's journey.
For I am convinced that neither life nor death...neither the present nor the future nor anything in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. Romans 8:38-39