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Originally Posted by Legendary
Well my lover (who is also a guy) and I used to be so sexually active with one another. But now I'm trying to lead us into a more healthier and pure life by waiting for the right moment so we can get to connect with one another on other levels besides the sexual kind.
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an active sex life is unhealthy and not pure? says who?
listen, connecting with your bf in other ways is great. there are plenty of ways to do it. why do you think this has to be done by excluding pyshical intimacy?
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You are right I am having a hard time accepting myself as hard as I have tried for 3 years so far, but I was in no way seeking to harm anyone by seemingly labeling them as something evil. The the research that I'm doing is fueled by my desire to learn more about the world. The foundation of all society's in based on gender roles,sexuality, and some sort of religion or belief system, so I want to observe, study, research, destroy and rebuild this foundation (metaphorically speaking) and try to understand why humans believe and think the way that we do.
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one of the exciting things about learning, is how a certain topic, or college course, can get us all excited, even obsessed, right at the very start. That is also a time when we don't know as much as we should about said topic, and down the road we learn that something we assumed at the beginning of the course, is not the case by mid-term. could this be happening for you with critical thinking?