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Originally Posted by Legendary
Well my lover (who is also a guy) and I used to be so sexually active with one another. But now I'm trying to lead us into a more healthier and pure life by waiting for the right moment so we can get to connect with one another on other levels besides the sexual kind.
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A very good friend who is female striaght married and monogamous. (Boy! that's a mouthful!)
She tells me sometimes she and her husband just have sex with her husband, nothing more...and that it is wonderful.
So if you are referencing the hetero married mongamous "Gold Standard" you are doing just fine.
But I feel something familiar. I sense that attached to every part of your intimacy is a value judgement.
I have done this too. We were taught to!
Place in your awareness the barrier to sharing joy caused by the attachment of value judgement.
That's a heavy line so I'l type it again:
Place in your awareness the barrier to sharing joy caused by the attachment of value judgement.
Print this line and repeat it out loud five times.
Write down what thoughts and feelings arise
a couuple of hours later repeat the exercise.
Then picture yourself a forest faun. A young child of nature finding a special sexy friend in the woods. Imagine The forest smiling and laughing with you as the two of you make love. Imagine the harmony of nature increase with your love-making and a breeze caresses your bodies with its blessing. Practice this imagery three times today
Share these with us and those who you trust.
This is and example of Vipassana or "Mindful awarenss"