Originally Posted by nydalek
Thank you all for the kind words. It means a great deal. I know there is a difference between gay by choice and gay because you are made that way (genetics, etc.), and I know that I'm not by choice.
I choose to live honestly and a normal life with my men and not a lonely passionless lie that hurts all.
I get a hoot out of dressing up in drag and performing...it has nothing to do with sex for me ...except well there was that one time LOL
And that is wonderful good-natured fun and sharing.
Again it is feeling the attachment of a value judgement
that is the real problem!