What the two of you, PNgrad and Victoria are doing for each other is providing fellow companionship out of darkness, out of hell.
I had the same Journey with my beloved Adrain. We were, like you guys, in a mind trap for years (with other people).
appreciate the value that you are to each other. Use each other as a sounding board. Share what you learn with experience. Heal each other and yourselves.
It is a journey of emancipation.
Love and affirmation,
Forrester Tongpa Nyi (formerly Ash Phoenix, faeries evolve! )
When you come to know that your entitlement to joy is a given, All that remains is the exploration of the many different ways to let it in