Victoria, one of the names of God; El Shaddai, can be translated "the breasted one". That clearly implies that God trancends gender. Some christians just can't wrap their mind around that idea. They end up fearing what they don't understand.
"Beloved let us tolerate one another. For tolerance is of God and everyone that tolerates is born of God and knows God. He that tolerates not, knows not God for God is tolerance." 1 John 4:7,8