I'm also here for you. You can bend my ear here or in a private message. It was just frustrating to watch you go back to her for more abuse. Now you are making positive changes for your life. You are right that warm fuzzy feelings are not enough to build something lasting. It's nice to have them. They just won't sustain your relationship.
"Beloved let us tolerate one another. For tolerance is of God and everyone that tolerates is born of God and knows God. He that tolerates not, knows not God for God is tolerance." 1 John 4:7,8