It may not seem like it but I know that people can be changed... my mom had become friends with this guy online, he ended up to be very anti-gay, he would even meet up with friends from work and make fun of gays. But he was already really good friends with my mom and she said either you respect my point of view or this is good bye. This was a little bit of a wake up call for him, they went through a lot of times where they wouldn't talk to each other. Then he heard her talking to him about my 'uncle' who has AIDS and how she was taking him to the hospital he was really sick... over time he began to realize how rude he was being. Then she told him to go and listen to the song "What it's like" by everlast... (it's a good song if you haven't heard it) ... he payed attention to what she said, he met my uncle... and spent a little time with our family. When he went back home where they were making fun of gay people and when they asked him why he wasn't joining them... he said "It just doesn't seem funny anymore"... since this his life has changed he doesn't make fun of people like that anymore... now before judging he'll find out what's really happening.
"What would you attempt to do if you knew you would not fail?"