I presented a pro-gay argument to a heterosexist. I am not concerned about the issue of his heterosexism. I am more concerned that I 100% presented my argument with respect. I am in the process of finding better ways of communicating pro-gay ideology without demeaning or insulting thsoe who object. It is vital that I become an activist that can use kindess as a means of hopefully persuauding. As I have told heterosexist many times, I do not expect to be an impact changing their views over night or for years to come. But I do believe my persistency in bringin up their heterosexism is the blue print for others to help change the contempt and hate in the hearts of heterosexists. Before I keep rambling let me share with you the dialogue:
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AS I SAID BEFORE YOU KEEP REPEATING YOURSELF IN EVERY POST YOU MAKE THEREFORE I REALLY AND TRUELY DONT READ NONE OF THEM, I SAID THAT IN ORDER TO SAY THIS TO YOU, WHAT DO YOU EXPECT TO GAIN BY PREACHING HOMOSEXUALLITY,
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That only truly shows that you insistently choose to support and embrace heterosexist belief. Dude(slang for man) that is wrong and un-cool. Why can’t you think about it and if you find out you are wrong, change. Why is it so bad? Well let’s answer the rest of your questions.
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1). WOULD YOU LIKE EVERY HUMAN BEING TO BE GAY (THEN WHO WOULD GIVE BIRTH) OR 21 )
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As a str8 person I would love a babe to go to a gay bar. That leaves less competition for me. LOL. As I will state again, every human being can not be gay because heterosexuality is necessary for reproduction. However, there has never been a 1:1 ratio of men to women. So for some people to be inherently being gay makes perfect sense. I would like to mention gay parents can inseminate a female to have children. The mother can play the female role in the relationship.
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ARE YOU TRYING TO FORCE HETEROSEXUALS TO ACCECPT HOMOSEXUALLITY AS NORMAL AND OK (WHICH LEAD US BACK TO #
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I can not FORCE people change their ways. But I can help them think about changing their ways by exposing the evil behind their some of their thought. If critics truly were ignoring my arguments, they would ignore me. If they are bored with my arguments they would ignore me. The fact they fail to shows that my gay defense offends them. So either two things will happen, they will stubbornly resist questioning their attitudes or they will start questioning their attitudes. If I simply comply with the demands of being silent, they will without a doubt, have their attitudes unchallenged outside of this board because opposition to heterosexism, in real Jamaica is rare. They will feel comfortable in their prejudices and there will be no hope for them change forever. So the fact that I have resistance, reflects the hope for change someday. Probably not today, next week or next month, but at some point I hope many on this board will realize their contempt, dislike of human beings based on physicality. Do you find someone pointing out to you a serious mistake and you correcting, it humiliating an offensive? I just don’t understand the angry undertones of your posts. Let’s go to the next issue
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ANYHOW, RIGHT NOW IT IS BETWEEN YOU AND I, IF YOU PROMISE TO EXPLAIN YOUR ANSWER TO MY QUESTION I PROMISE TO READ IT, OK.
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I hope you will respond to my responses and the other questions I have directed to you that you have not answered. That will tell me if you really want to listen to my argument. Sadly, what I have seen is that you ignore my post and engage in insults. That is a poor reflection of you. You are better than this.
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NOW, DOWN TO THE CRUCKS OF THE MATTER, IF YOU ARE SO OBSESS ON BRING GAY AWEARNESS TO THE WORLD ( AS IF IT'S NEW ), EDUCATE ME; LETS SAY YOUR LOVER AS THE RUNS IS IT SIMILAR TO A WOMAN SEEING HER PERIOD I WANNA KNOW, CAZ IF THAT IS THE CASE I DONT THINK YOU CAN HAVE SEX UNDER THOSES CONDITION, OR YOU DO, DO YOU I WAANA KNOW. ON THE SAME SUBJECT, PERIOD, IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU GAYS, OOPS I MEAN GUYS TO GET PREGNANT,
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Not really John, just like it is NOT possible for celibate people like me to get pregnant.
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CAZ HERE IS WHERE I AM HAVING A REAL SERIOUS PROBLEM, IF BEING IS SO DAMN OK FOR YOU ET AL, WHY IS'NT IT OK FOR ALL OF US
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Well John all of us could be bi-sexual. Everyone is not gay because of it would cause extinction. Also, I would say that not everyone can be a lifetime virgin. It will make us extinct as well. Catholic priests who are celibate for life. This is respected. Why? We all can not be celibate for life without making the human race extinct. To be fair you should be asking that question to lifetime celibates as well.
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(SPEAKING OF US, I FOR GET THAT IS YOUR MISSION NOW; TO SPREAD AND CONVERT),
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I am str8. I have no intention of being gay really and I really have not met one gay guy who wanted to convert all st8 to gays. However, illegalizing anal sex (indirectly) and illegalizing gay marriage is trying to force gays to be str8. Gay equal countries still have a gay minority. If you were gay and had self-esteem you would be pissed off. So I am not getting how gay revolution turns everyone gay. Do you seriously believe that?
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THEREFORE, THIS LEAD ME TO BE THINKING ABOUT EXTINCTION,
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John, 1-10% of the world is gay. How can this lead to the extinction of a race? For the most part they are born that way, so if 1-10% of the world for the most part is born gay, how can that make us extinct? Well, honestly, John it can not. The heterosexual majority will always have the capacity to reproduce.
Now can I ask you a question, if we have a country where for every man there is two women, how is being lesbian and str8 a problem? Suppose I am a woman who wants to be with one person. Well the only conclusion is to be a lesbian? Why would god object when he created it that way?
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NOW IF YOU HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR MAN KIND ( OOPS HUMAN KIND ) WHY WOULD YOU PROMOTE SUCH AN EVIL ENTITY.
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John, the love of good in people is not evil. Two men can love the goodness of one another on romantic level. Sex is often the tool used to express this love. Secondly, how does homosexual love lead to romantically loving children when homosexual love is defined between two adults. Your conclusion, that gay love leads to pedo love which is truly deviant, is puzzling. Does hetero love lead to pedophilia?
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I WAANA KNOW. ON THE SAME SUBJECT, PERIOD, IS IT POSSIBLE FOR YOU GAYS, OOPS I MEAN GUYS TO GET PREGNANT
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Not really John, just like it is possible for celibate people like me to get pregnant.
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CAZ HERE IS WHERE I AM HAVING A REAL SERIOUS PROBLEM, IF BEING IS SO DAMN OK FOR YOU ET AL, WHY IS'NT IT OK FOR ALL OF US
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Well John all of us could be bi-sexual. Everyone is not gay because of it would cause extinction. Also, I would say that not everyone can be a lifetime virgin. It will make us extinct as well. Catholic priests who are celibate for life. This is respected. Why? We all can not be celibate for life without making the human race extinct. To be fair you should be asking that question to them as well.
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THEREFORE, THIS LEAD ME TO BE THINKING ABOUT EXTINCTION,
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John, 1-10% of the world is gay. How can this lead to the extinction of a race? For the most part they are born that way, so if 1-10% of the world for the most part is born gay, how can that make us extinct? Well, honestly, John it can not. The heterosexual majority will always have the capacity to reproduce.
Now let me ask you a question, if we have a country where for every man there is two women. How is being lesbian and str8 a problem? Suppose I am a women who wants to be with one person. Well the only conclusion is to be a lesbian? Why would god object when he created it that way.
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NOW IF YOU HAVE SO MUCH LOVE FOR MAN KIND ( OOPS HUMAN KIND ) WHY WOULD YOU PROMOTE SUCH AN EVIL ENTITY.
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John love of goodness between people is not evil. Two men can love the goodness of one another on romantic level. Sex is often the tool used to express this love. Secondly, how does homosexual love lead to loving children when homosexual love is defined between two adults. Your conclusion, that gay love leads to pedophilic love which is truly deviant, is puzzling. Does hetero love lead to pedophilic love?
My closing Comments
Please my brothers in sisters we already know that this brother suffers from heterosexism. I want to know if did I present our case for gay equality in respectful manner. The evaluation should be directed to me, not him for I want our (idelogical) enemies to recieve the truth in respect and kindness. So please tell me in any instance I disrespected my ideological enemy.