After passing a proposal on to two senior members (not as far as age, but as far as time spent here), and receiving support, I think there is a compromise that can be made concerning the disagreement. I feel that this could work for both Andrew's (u-dog's) and David's wants. I feel that we can open this for questions and inquiries for young people, and protect those from relapses of hurtful times, but also monitor those who are new and might have an agenda that is contrary to the purpose of Soulforce. Those who help on this thread can answer questions to the best of their ability, so that those who truly are suffering and might not seem earnest can still receive relief. For those who are not earnest and are pretending to be a gay youth, the answers provided can still help those who silently read the thread. Also, those who are not sincere can be reported, and thus eliminating any possible threat to the forums here.