Hi, I'm Beth

[bethanyclm]

Hi, my sister told me about this group after I was upset by the Maryland Bishops and particularly the nasty comments my parish was making on its blog against allowing same sex civil unions and against anyone who questioned the bishops. It's a bit tiresome and depressing to hear people telling you that you're being unfaithful to your church by not blindly accepting whatever the magisterium declares.

I'm a 23 year old Roman Catholic living in Silver Spring, outside of DC. There's the general outrage that I feel when reading hurtful and ignorant statements (from people who insist that they're not bigoted, just "faithful") and then there's the more personal reason why I'm outraged. One of my dearest friends refuses to take the Eucharist because he believes that he is in a state of constant sin due to his homosexual nature. He isn't trying to "change" himself, he accepts that he is how he is, but is in a lot of spiritual pain trying to reconcile his deep Catholic faith with his sexual orientation. I have no idea how to help him.
Seeing this group and knowing that there are other faithful Christians out there working to change people's hearts is very hopeful to see. Thank you for your presence. I might try suggesting the group to him and seeing if that comforts him. I would welcome any other ideas. He has so many people who love him and before Benedict was contemplating becoming a priest. I just want to help him be happy.

Anyway, this is long. Thank you for exisiting, you really are a beacon of light.

[Zerbie]

Welcome, Beth.

I feel so for your friend. I believe there's really no more we can do for people in your friend's position beyond expressing our own views and showing them what great people they are, and how much they mean to us. It is up to each of us to understand from within how infinitely loved and valuable we are in essence. I don't believe that inner knowing can be given from outside. But maybe our personal convictions can ignite a spark in others.

Voting for this: just continue to be the wonderful friend you clearly are.

[tdogg]

Hi Beth!

Glad you found us. Yeah, it's terrible what organized religion does to people. That's why it's wonderful to have faithful spiritual folks like you! Thanks for sharing a bit about yourself with us.

Tdogg

[Gennee]

Welcome to Soulforce, Beth. I understand what you're friend is going through because I face the same thing when I found out that I am transgender. I prayed and understand that god loves me unconditionally. It was the turning point in my reconciling my faith and being transgender.

I recommend Mel White's book 'Religion Gone Bad'. I will pray for you and your friend.
My testimony is on www.epistle.us. Click testimonies, then 'Transgender and a Christian'. I pray that it will speak to his heart.

Gennee



www.epistle.us

[Jennifer5]

Welcome, Beth