Hello. i'm Jessie.. :-)

[wodewode]

Hello..
My name is Jessie.
sorry.... eh.. my english.. isn't good enough..
please understand my poor english..
eh.. i want to meet someone who can help me....

i already have started to be with my girlfriend..
i hope.. i can take care.. this relationship.. in God..
but i don't know.. very well...
thesedays i read many books about dating & love & marriage...
but.. sometimes.. i'm very confused..
they... say.. i can't be with my girlfriend..
i wanted.. these books to give me some useful advices... but..
when i read some parts that they insist i'd better not to meet lover or not to marry...
i don't know... what can i do....

before i started this relationship.. i read some resources on soulforce...
and.. it helped me very much...
i wish i can meet some friends or mentors in here...
my friends and mentors .. also are helping me very much..
(some friends know this relationship)
but i still want to meet someone.. in here.. and share our experience and thought and feeling..

[Zerbie]

Welcome, Jessie.

I don't know what books there are in Korean about relationships between two girls, that would support you. No idea.

Your English is good - we can understand you. Have you tried reading books in English about relationships? Maybe some others who read this website can recommend some books that will give you helpful information.

Can anyone recommend a good book for Jessie?

[wodewode]

Thank you very much.. glad to meet you..
i..... wanted to meet some friends in here..

there are no books about relationships between two girls.
i haven't read any books about that.....
and.. i didn't read many books about love & dating & marriage...;
... i just started to read some books about love & dating for chrisitians....;
b/c i thought they are more useful for me....;

i had never thought about homosexuality before i met my girlfirend.
so i don't know many things.. about homosexuality..

i think.... i.. have many problems or questions about love with my girfriend..
for example... touching? or marriage? or sex before marriage.. or something...

but.. sometimes i feel nobody can help me..;;;;
eh.. well.. some of my female friends having boyfriends help me a lot..

i'll find some books for two girls.. :-)
i'm reading "Every women's battle"(in korean),
i don't know.. if it is useful..:-P but.. haha.... not useless..

anyway.. Thank you.. very much..

[BruceChris]

It can be one of the most wonderful things in the world. One of the most wonderful experiences in the world. This harms no one, and it makes the whole world a better place.

Some people talk out of fear and ignorance, and they may say that what you are doing, or what you may be experiencing is wrong. They are not being harmed by what you are doing, and if you can avoid them, you will be better off.

My Christian church is made up of mostly gay men and lesbians, and they are wonderful people. We believe that God loves us as much as He loves any of His children.

I hope that you find happiness in life, Bruce Chris

[philip3gw]

Hi and welcome. You message has come through loud and clear

[Jennifer5]

Welcome Jessie!

I don't know what books to suggest, sorry.

Did you have any questions for us though?

[wodewode]

ah... we have a lot of difference..
nationality... language.. culture.. even.. time difference.. >_<
especially.. our religions.. are diffrent..
i hope.. she can meet jesus..
do you have any advices for long distance relationship..? or... for me?

anyway.. thank you for your kind replys..
i'm so glad to meet you guys.. in here...

[Jennifer5]

Originally Posted by wodewode

ah... we have a lot of difference..
nationality... language(but we can speak chinese).. culture.. even.. time difference.. >_<
especially.. our religions.. are diffrent..
i hope.. she can meet jesus..
do you have any advices for long distance relationship..? or... for me?

and... sometimes... i feel... because she is... a girl.
i really easily touch her..-_-; eh.......
for example.... if i have a boyfriend... i won't sleep with him before marriage..
but.. when we are friends(at that time.. i didn't know she loves me)
i already started sleep with her...
and.. after i'm with her.. i continued to sleep with her.(eh.. just sleep^^)
oh.. now we are not same place..
anyway.. sometimes... i feel... we are too fast.. and.. i'm too easy to touch her
and she knows that.. and.. she try to control herself...

when we meet again.. (next time.. maybe.. summer or.. winter.. T_T)
if i sleep with her..again... will it be dangerous?
i know.. what she wants... she is just.. enduring.. that.... because of me.
in this situation.. (eh.. i'm very.. affectionate..; & i also like touching or hugging her a lot.. >_< )
my this attitude..can...... hurt her?
do we need special.."line"? eh.. >_<
sorry. i dunno how to explain..
and.. i dunno many words for this.-_-;...;;; sorry..

anyway.. thank you for your kind replys..
i'm so glad to meet you guys.. in here...

Don't worry Jessie, I think we can all understand your english well enough. I understand what you are saying.

I don't know what advice to give you. I think that nothing can stand between two people in love. If she loves you as much as you seem to love her, you will find a way to be together again.