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My intent by introducing this dichotomy Of Christian versus christan is to offer a distinction between believing in Christ without having to also accept homophobic condemnation from a church. The purpose is to suggest a tool to help the gay christian let go of the self condemnation activated by unskilled words from a church leader yet still keep his/her faith. Believe it or not my Godparents are devout christians. They practice to the best of their capacity love and forgiveness. I have never heard a single word about sin or abomination in the 43 years that I have known them. It is part of what makes them two of the most beautiful people I know in the world. I know that christianity can also be used to nurture gay people and not always to condemn them because I have received such from my Godparents. While like Rick, I do not have a metaphysical belief that Christ was anything more than a human possessed of rare genius, I find that his assertion that every being has the capacity and entitlement to love and be loved unconditionally, to be a touchstone. I find touchstones in many different thought paradigms contained within varied religious metaphysical constructs. I don't have to convince myself that all of the paradigm is true in order to embrace a touchstone within it. Ths is why I allow into my awareness other folks' religious insights. I consider someone's faith to be a part of their mind created by their mind. Since I have begun mindful awareness meditation (Vipassana), I have begun to see the beauty and magnificence of my own mind. Since becoming aware of my own mind I have become aware of the beauty and magnificence of the minds of the people I encounter --and their faith is part of that beauty. To me, metaphysical reality of a belief is unimportant. I see no value in proving or disproving it. If it reveals a touchstone, it is valuable to me. If it causes suffering, it is worthless and I allow it to leave the focus of my consciousness. I hope this post is not as unskillful as my previous ones in this thread. I never had intent to cause negative feelings or offense. Quite the opposite. I was and still am attempting to help folks, in some small way, to more easily learn to let go of suffering.
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I am convinced that it is an awareness different than ours that we could not possbly begin to characterize, but a reaction to these things in a living organism certainly suggests the appearance of awareness. We share 90% of the same genes in common with hickory trees and we have awareness. Empiricism is a solid thought method, but belief in nonexistence of anything that isn't proven to you seems more like nihilism. Practicing nihilism in my moment to moment thoughts was something I did for many years. It killed any sense of wonder or appreciation. Adrain, my Heart Brother, questioned my nihilistic belief that my "mind" was mereley predictable electrochemical reactions. He showed me the art and emotions he created with photograpy. Art arises from shared awareness of two beings. This put a chink in my nihilistic armor. Bit by bit beauty and wonder and appreciation returned to my day to day life experience. The mystery of how a forest functions as an ecosystem with each of its living components interacting certainly appears to possess awareness on some uncharacterizeable level. The fact that humans are not able to characterize something using a tool of empiricism does not prove nonexistence. So if something appears to have awareness and it cannot be disproven, which discipline of thought is most compatible with a healthy mind? Nihilism and assumption of nonexistence or allowiing the benefit of the doubt to evoke mystery, wonder and appreciation? For me it is the latter; opening my mind, to the possiblity of a mysterious wonder. Obsession with Metaphysical accuracy blocks the potential for experiencing life. An atheist can be as comparably Obsessed with metapysical accuracy as a person with a religious belief. Both views are probably so far off from the mark of what is reality that their difference is virtually indistinguishable. I agree that following a belief system that seems absurd is valueless, but allowing your mind to be open to the possibility of something not absurd but not provable can lead to discovery.
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I like the direction of your thought, especially the following....
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Like you, I believe that keeping one's awareness open is what leads to discovery. Doubt is an exceedingly good thing. It leads to the path less trodden.
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I'll take my chances with poetry over a test tube any day. 'Course, I never was any good at science anyway....
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I see what I would call empirical evidence all the time but acknowledge that it might not appear as such to anyone else. In my faith God is all there is but I know I can't define it in anyone else's life. My feeling is It becomes personal to you, through you, as you.
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I can find hundreds of examples of how fundamentalist are "off the mark" of what reality is. But I'm curious about us atheists being off that mark. Can you give me examples including evidence to support the examples? Quote:
But look around. Where are these things? Shouldn't logic and common sense tell us that if something is invisible and has no trustworthy evidence to support its existence that it probably isn't real? Just because lots of people believe that something is true doesn't mean that it is true. Most adults over the age of 50 in the United States in 2009 believe that Lee Harvey Oswalt did not work alone when he assassinated President Kennedy in November 1963. Even after years of intense investigation and hundreds of interviews and hard physical evidence shows otherwise they continue to hold onto this belief. They refuse to believe Oswalt was the lone gunman because for one insane person to kill the president seems so random and senseless. They believe there's got to be more to it than that. A conspiracy just makes more sense. It also makes the story more exciting. And since so many Americans believe in the conspiracy theory, then they figure that it must be true. And besides, there was that movie. Is reality so boring that we need conspiracy theories and ghosts and faeries and ESP to make it more exciting? Or is reality so frightening that we need make-believe gods and angels and aliens to save us from it? For me, I don't need a magical make-believe world to make life more livable. I find the real world right in front of me to be beautiful, mysterious and adventurous all on its own. And I know that I can face the challenges of life with confidence because my survival up to this point is proof of it. At night I can step out into my front yard and look up at a universe full of stars and planets and it thrills me knowing that I am part of it all. I can visit the Grand Canyon and be in awe of the millions of years it took to create it. I can enjoy a child's excitement of Christmas or the laughter with family or friends or a walk through a shower of golden leaves on a cool November afternoon. The way I see it, we are all here for a very short time. And when we're gone, we will be forgotten. Fifty years after we die, few, if any will know or care that we ever existed at all. The most important thing is that we're alive now and that we enjoy the present. Hoping that another life exists after we die doesn't mean it does. The fact that millions of people believe in an afterlife doesn't make it real. Only evidence makes it real and so far there is absolutely no evidence that we survive death to live forever in another world. What we know for sure is that this life is what we have now. Enjoy it. Savor it. Celebrate it. Soak it in. But whatever you do, don't miss it by being distracted with anticipation of an even better party later. This is the party! And it will end much sooner than you think. Rick |
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In terms of us being forgotten, as a genealogist, I feel something spiritual-y when I learn more about people I never knew, but without whom I wouldn't be here. Not only haven't I forgotten them, I'm actively seeking to learn more about them. It's fascinating and connects me to the past. Jews actively incorporate remembering their dead into each religious service, especially noting the yahrzeit (death anniversary) of particular people. It's a beautiful tradition that reminds us that people continue to exist in our hearts. Quote:
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As long as you're not forcing me to behave according to your view of reality, why should I care? It doesn't really matter how one finds his happiness. Life is short. If it feels good, do it. Rick |
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Exactly. Yes. And amen.
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Have a great weekend!
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Speaking for myself, I don't believe God is supernatural. I have run across this idea from atheists in other places and I'm just not clear on what is meant by it.
Science has already proven that it is all God to my satisfaction. I just don't know what it is people are looking at and saying isn't. I am a person that has experienced my own faith healings many times. I don't really care what agency they come through. It is done unto me as I believe.
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I'm curious if you have any thoughts about what your thread has become.
And if your original question has been answered.
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