No absolutly nothing wrong with falling in love. No she doesnt blame me for the way shes feeling, i just feel bad i guess when i see her hurting and i cant help. She is currently getting counselling, for other issues, and she has spoke to her counsellor about this but from what i gather the counsellor understands how her family is and the situation, which to be honest i would have thought they would see this as an unhealthy situation but what would i know. I guess i kinda hoped they would try and change her mindset into a healthy one.
As for work, yeah we do get our work done and it can be difficult at times. I have no intention of loosing my job, or her hers, jobs are very precious at the moment. Iv never met anyone through work before so its all new to me.