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I wrote this first part after receiving an email from mumsy dearest to the immediate family that really got my goat, but before I could start this thread I ended up responding to the email directly which I is included further down.
This is the emotional set up and was all I was going to post to start this thread, but apparently I need to be angry to pack a punch. It’s a bit long but I think it’s much more dramatic the way it all worked out. ~~ I was at my parent’s house recently and my brother (Mr. NRA-4-EVR) was there too. He was saying to my mom, disdainfully, how Hillary Clinton was saying that “It’s time stop thinking about the individual and start thinking about the community,” and my mother retorts “Yeah, just like Pelosi.” I patiently inquired as to what exactly was wrong with that thinking and was told by my mother that it was “communistic,” at which point my head promptly exploded. Upon reassembly I was then treated to the story of Dr. Zhivago and how the Russian government took the property from the rich and gave it to the poor, implying that if we don’t stop these newly empowered “tax and spend” Democrats the same will happen here. I found out that they support tax cuts for the wealthy, corporations, and cutting of government benefits and programs for the poor. If anyone wants what they have they can just go out and work for it – even though they’re also against the minimum wage. I tried to counter on several points but they had excuses galore, finally I brought up Iraq and the unnecessary billions we’re spending there and got the FREEDOM FREEDOM FREEDOM mantra, “Yes I’ll let my neighbor down the street starve and go homeless if it means protecting freedom!" I actually had to explain to my brother that there were no WMD’s and Iraq had nothing to do with 9/11 and when I mentioned the civilians we are killing he said he couldn’t believe our soldiers were killing them, as though the ONLY culpability in a person’s death is the person pulling the trigger. Creating the situation that unnecessarily kills people, A-OK. ~~ Long story short – and their story is a typical one – they mistake Republican for true conservatism and Democratic compassion for taking what’s “mine.” I don’t do well under pressure so I want to be prepared with a list of things to rattle off next time as to where their ‘precious’ tax dollars ARE being spent, as this ignorance continues to rear its ugly head. And to clarify just one thing, the real issue is not that they may be wrong on the facts, it’s that they don’t care enough to research and KNOW whether or not they are right OR wrong on the issue, not unlike our beloved Dobson drones. ~~ So I’m looking for things like statistics and/or congressional bills that have been passed where they cut taxes for the wealthy but also cut benefits to veterans. Anything along the lines of “You don’t want to spend money on this, but you’re willing to spend money on this?!” More money spent on prisons vs schools would be a good example. One actual example I remember was approving the 20 million dollar victory party for Iraq yet cutting some 14 million in funding for improved helmets to protect those in combat (I’m still looking for the source on the latter). Cutting veterans benefits or gear for the troops is primo info. Like when anti-gay bigots “love” homosexuals by treating us like dogs, they “support the troops” and wounded Iraq veterans by ensuring their financial insecurity and health care misery – and that of their families. Let me know if anything comes up like this or if you remember anything from the past few years. I’ve been watching C-SPAN like a hawk since ‘04 and I know I’ve witnessed scores of examples in that time. If you don’t have the source don’t worry about it, I can always do a search if I get desperate. |
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I got this in my email from my mother to the immediate family, your standard loving motherspam as it were, without the link or mention of where it was from. If you’re familiar with World Net Daily I need explain no more (they’re hideously anti-gay). If not, here’s a taste (just a taste) of the article. Click on the link to read it in full.
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Anyone who considers that response to threat to be acceptable IS a threat. Basically I walked away from this article/email with the sense that (re Iraq), as a Christians, we should destroy the lives of others and then sit back and be grateful for what we have that they don't. Puke-o-rama.
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This is my response to the email above. Keep in mind that my “Christian” brother and his wife (not the NRA4EVR brother) – who signed the anti-gay FL marriage amendment – were also recipients of that email, so it’s written with them in mind too.
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(like I need it, I have My Pet Goat on my side.. )
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Reading your story reminds me of the book "Don't Think of an Elephant" That book does a really good job of explaining the mindsets or "Frames" that give Conservative Republicans and Progressives such very different mind sets. It explains, for instance, how the word "freedom" means completely different things to Conservative Republicans and Progressives.
It can get frustrating trying to dialogue with folks who simply do not see the world the same way we do. We can't give up, though. Steven Webster |
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Ok this is about to get good.
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(To be clear, I'm having problems in the spiritual non-violent department.. In fact I need an "intervention."
) That said:~~ Here’s the funny one from my sister (the older one, my age). I guess she’s not used to seeing www.links.com in her email. Her last sentence with the 'links' though actually works.. Soak it up kids – ‘hell to pay on the way. ~~ (reply)Whew!!!!! Wow! Hello Patrick. You’re alive and well I see. www.oprah.com Spending all your time worring about things that you can’t change. www.drphil.com Bitching about them to those who are closest and (really could care less), working on a computer that you didn’t earn and living in a home that was a gift. www.google.com Must be nice! Maybe I’m on the wrong websites. I don’t know why you’re so interested in the lives of Irakeess and Muslin’s www.fabric.com when you do nothing but cause a daily verbal and non verbal war on your own family. You are no better than Bush. www.nickjr.com By the way who the heck is Haliburton and what hard earned tax dollars are you talking about? Yours??????? You have to www.work.com to earn www.dollars.com that could be www.taxed.com. Right? Anyhoo….Blah Blah Blah about the rest. www.gottago.com -X |
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Maybe, if your family is so obsessed with their freedom, ask them what they think of the President. Perhaps they have forgotten that good old Bush can tap and record any telephone conversation he feels like, if he can call it a threat to national security. Or maybe they don't know that the government has the power to throw citizens in jail without the right to a trial or a phone call, on the sole basis of suspicion of terrorist activities. They probably think that we as a people are truly free, but they forget that as the days turn to weeks, and months to years Iraq continues to piss other people off. In response to pissed off people our government moves to protect us. And by their protection, we loose freedoms.
Maybe you should clarify with them, that to have freedom is to loose safety, and to be safe is to loose freedoms. That might enlighten them to their own hypocrisy. Austin PS - I myself would gladly give up freedoms for my safety, even if it sounds other wise... I hope that helps...
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It's a good suggestion tpdncr4christ, I'm just not the man to deliver their message of interest. I'm much better at dropping nuclear bombs to open people up to people like you that may actually can deliver those messages in spiritually non-violent ways though.
And davidcom, I didn't realize I would get sprayed in the way that I did. I've been in internet relay with them this afternoon, but let me try and hone this a bit better. I think it works out, at least in structure. P.S. It's gonna get worse before it gets better... |
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So your family shoots barbs back and forth? At least you are talking. That's something. A something that can lead to something else. Beats talking to a brick wall. I wrote an email to my siblings this past year regarding gay marriage (3 out of 4 of them actually- my youngest brother has a 'live let live' policy) and got a response that echoes yours above from my missionary brother and his wife. My other three siblings? Nada. It's hard having those who profess to love us actually ignore our concerns. They separate themelves from us by their judgement/condemnation, creating an abyss between us, one that cannot be traversed easily, unless, of course, one takes the tack that there isn't any separation at all, which entails a change of perception on our part. Holding onto that may be hard, but someone's gotta do it. All else is vengeance.
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The other responses were telling, they wholeheartedly supported this one from my brother who signed the FL “marriage amendment” petition. The others may not have known that, but I did.
The man and "his wife," literally went out of their way to prevent me from enjoying not only the right to marry, but also the rights of marriage, and did so behind my back. ~~ These Are MY Words!: Quote:
~~ Gives new meaning to idea of projectile "vomit" as it were.. But as Martha Stewart says, “It’s a good thing." He’s done all my work for me. The letter I have been beating myself up to complete is no more. Switch around a few words and the above expresses the HORROR of what I live with every day in my mind (regarding him).I realize I'm responsible for my thoughts and not to absolve them of responsibility but I know they don’t mean to be mean, but I am truly blind with rage. And I know I’m transferring all the Dobson et al lies-anger onto them that they don’t even deserve. I actually want to hate them. I have become the thing I despise the most. ~~ Such a seemingly uncharacteristic response from him is enlightening despite its disillusionment. It put’s him squarely on my level, except for the fact that he doesn’t realize that...yet. I thought he expressed himself well though if nothing else. Definitely merit to his message. But I’m still judging them through the pigeon hole of the petition they signed, That’s where I draw the line. So I guess it comes down to at least agreeing on what the line itself is in order to minimize conflict. That would be the part I failed at completing...so far. |
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Ahhhh... my darling! You have renewed my faith in the family closet.
Oy!! Yes, yes...I did argue with my old man over New Years, but we kept it strictly politics and rilijin'...as always. We don't ever let it get personal. Chin up, young person!
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If they gave us the tax breaks that go with marriage we would have more money to spend which would stimulate the economy even more.
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So my sister wrote this from earlier, above. The links are a joke, she was making fun of me for including links in the original email. And then I made fun of her making fun of me back (below), so don't worry about clicking on them.
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And duplicitous? I don’t mean to nitpick or anything but that adjective alone pretty much makes the devil half God. Which makes sheer evil half good. If the devil is duplicitous by nature, then by nature it cannot be a cohesive unit. To the extent that duplicitousness is impossible, so too is the devil. The devil, by its own nature is impossible. Nothing could be truly duplicitous and still be one whole thing. And nothing doesnt exist! Now how do I put that into dogmatic terms even a Catholic mother could love? |
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Patrick- Your mom is....well....a handful.
I bet she didn't mean it this way, but when I read her words "God has certainly taken a back seat", I started to laugh, imagining a wizened old man in the back seat of a cab, you in the passenger seat, your mother at the wheel. God yelling "where they hell are you taking us lady?" My fundi brother has been known to 'go off' about original sin, which makes me think of babies being born with some kind of deformity. It's strange, when you take a good look at the strange ideas people come up with. And original sin seems one of the most strangest of all. It's a very effective idea, however, if one wants to decide what and who is sinful. Then the hoop jumping starts. I know the great theologians have stacks of books on this idea. All I gotta say is that, no matter how you add it up, what pretty face you draw on it, in the end, it's a bad idea, and an even worse teaching tool. It's like telling a tennis player something is wrong with his feet. If he thinks about it too much, he won't be able to move. He's gotta learn to keep his eye on the ball. The Inner Game of Love.
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Eastern Orthodox are very skeptical of Augustine's theology of Original Sin because of its emphasis on utter depravity and an in-born stain of guilt such that those born into Original Sin cannot be in the presence of God unless that sin is removed (this is where the theory of 'limbo' comes from ... it is where babies without actual sin, but with Original Sin (due to lack of baptism) go because while their lack of actual sin precludes the 'punishment' of hell, the presence of unremoved Original Sin precludes full communion with God). Augustine's theory of Original Sin also forms the basis for substitutionary atonement theologies as well as things like the Roman Catholic dogma of the Immaculate Conception.
The view that many Orthodox theologians have of Original Sin is that it is the inheritance of mortality -- it isn't so much a stain that precludes communion with God as the inheritance of immortality in our mortal flesh ... an inheritance that is "washed away" in the waters of baptism in which we die with Christ and are risen again in Christ -- in other words, in baptism we "put on Christ" and therefore share in his inheritance of immortality, replacing our prior inheritance of mortality, and our death experience is transformed, if we live our lives in Christ, to the death experience of Christ - i.e., not as a terminal experience, but as a passage to new life. Original sin, seen in this light, is, to my spiritual experience at least, more understandable, less abstract, and more sensible -- but I do respect Augustine's views as well as those who have theologies that derive from his own. |
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Wanting to undertand what you are trying to convey, would you consider a restatement for this lowly layman?
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Wow, some deep stuff here....
The original sin argument is thick with history but how come no one ever talks about how it alienates us from God, self and neighbor allowing us to bear false witness about things like WMDs, and against our poorer neighbor, and the immigrant, who are all being blamed for our economic problems. There is a deliberate attempt to paint welfare recipients as the real problem yet the amount of money spent on the poor in these programs is a speck of sand on the map compared to corporate welfare. We should worry a whole lot more that corporations are taking over our destiny than liberals or democrats! Some interesting links: http://www.cato.org/pubs/pas/pa-241.html http://www.randomhouse.com/features/...boutbook.html) Those who favor corporations over their poor neighbor can call themselves a lot of things but they can't square the practice with biblical christianity. Both OT & NT are replete with warnings, admonitions & laws demanding that we take care of the poor. Jesus' whole life was spent doing that (talk about accessible healthcare...people fought just to touch the hem of his tunic!) More links to describe the domination of corporations we are under and the free ride they are getting: http://www.forbes.com/newswire/2003/...tr1135443.html http://www.time.com/time/2002/enron/ http://rawstory.com/news/2005/Cheney...last_1011.html http://www.aflcio.org/corporatewatch/ns09222004.cfm http://homepage.mac.com/gcatalone/ib...307/index.html We are so polarized over these issues but it's time the FACTS got to the masses. The middle class are shouldering the tax burden and the poor are getting left behind [pun intended]. Pray for America to be liberated from the corporate demonic influence that has seized us.
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I guess the way that my Eastern priest friends taught it to me was that when we are born, we are born into a life of death -- that is to say, death is in our flesh and bones, it is a part of our condition existentially. We're all mortal -- from the moment we are born, one of the great realities of our life is the reality of death. Eastern theology sees this as being the mark of original sin -- we inherit this mortality from the sin of Adam (and Eve) -- it was that first sin, the original sin, that changed Adam and made him mortal, and therefore it was only his mortality that could be passed down unto all subsequent human generations. It's this mortality that is the mark of Adam's sin in all human beings. In Jesus Christ, the mortal human nature inherited from Adam in the flesh of Mary is united with the immortal divine nature of the Son of God in one person. Christ's human nature is united with his divine nature by means of being united together with it in the one person of Jesus. And because it is united to Christ's divine nature, his human nature -- by virtue of this union -- is no longer a mortal human nature (i.e., that which was inherited from the post-fall mortal nature of Adam), but an immortal one, restored to its original pre-fall state of immortality by virtue of being united with the immortal divinity of the Son of God. Individual Christians are born into mortality as everyone else is. By virtue of baptism, the person dies with Jesus and is raised with Jesus and "puts on Christ" -- that is, one's mortal nature is transformed through union with Jesus (not a union by incorporation into Christ's person, as it was for Christ's human nature, but a union by grace and communion with God in and through Jesus) into an immortal nature. That doesn't mean that people don't die -- even Jesus died. What it means is that when death happens, it is the same experience for the Christian who dies "in Christ" as it was for Christ, because the Christian's mortal nature has been transformed into an immortal nature through a transformative life of communion in Christ. [***-- see below] Now what I wrote there makes it sound like baptism is magic, but that's not generally the way it's understood by Orthodox -- baptism is the beginning of the transformative life, not its dispositive end. The tradition is that one's entire life is a way of living out one's baptism, of growing ever closer to Christ, into ever more perfect communion with him and, through him, with God. It's a life of transformation and grace that the Orthodox refer to as "theosis" (often translated as "dvinization", but that's really a poor translation ... what it means is that the individual's human nature is being transformed by grace into the kind of human nature that Jesus has -- into a "divinized" human nature thoroughly flooded with God's grace (which the Orthodox refer to as "divine energy")). So when original sin is looked at as the "inheritance of mortality", that means that we're all born into a mortal state as human beings. It doesn't mean, from this perspective (and I'm not saying other perspectives are invalid, I'm just trying to clarify this perspective), that one is not "justified" in the eyes of God. It simply means that one is mortal, and this is not what God intended us to be when he created humankind. The tremendous act of self-giving by Jesus in undergoing a human death (so that death could be transformed for all of those who live "in him") was done, per this perspective, not to pay off a debt, or to satisfy divine justice, but to restore humanity to its intended state of immortal life and communion with God. This perspective doesn't view the crucifixion from the perspective of substitutionary atonement, but rather from the perspective of triumph and restoration -- God's voluntary act of undergoing death so as to take away the "sting" of death, and restore his creation to the way he intended it to be, despite its own flaws and mistakes. I think I've probably still stated what's a very simple idea in a complicated way. Stated as simply as I can manage: God became human so that humanity can become what God intended humanity to be -- not just morally (although that's very important because it reflects a life of growing communion with God in Christ), but in terms of humanity's very *nature*. ------------------------------ *** -- The liturgical traditions of baptism differ, and in some ways also reflect the divergent ideas about "Original Sin". In most "mainline" Western traditions (not all, but most), baptism is normally done by the sprinkling of water over the head, or perhaps the pouring of water over the head. The liturgical symbolism in either case is primarily one of "cleansing" -- washing away the stain of Original Sin and making one a part of the Body of Christ. In the Eastern tradition, the baptism is performed differently. Most typically with infants (but also with adult newcomers), there is a large font, and the child is thrust down into the water and up again out of the water rather vigorously three times by the priest (a typically trinitarian formulation), with the liturgical symbolism representing not only washing/cleaning (also present, of course), but also a "dying" (going down into the water) and a "resurrection" (coming up out of the water). This up and down way of performing "immersion baptism" is an intrinsic part of the rite, and is also performed for adult converts -- it's never done by pouring water over the head because that symbolism -- while perfectly appropriate for a more Augustinian approach towards Original Sin -- doesn't really reflect what the Orthodox theological tradition has become about these issues. It's interesting to see these kinds of liturgical diversities as a reflection of underlying theological diversities. Last edited by novaseeker; 02-02-2007 at 09:18 AM. |
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Wow Patrick, here are some hugs for you, you need 'em! {{{
}}}So, we are back at the argument "the devil made you do it". Yeah, I have some family who feel that way as well. It's a frustrating and nearly impossible argument to deal with. AGGGHHHHHHAAAAAAA! I dunno, just a thought, but perhaps the common Christian belief of "original sin" is partly why some folk destroy their precious little children? To save them from hell??? It's just so bizzare to me, and although it's something that's been hammered into my head (and out my ears thank goodness) by so-called Christian folk my whole life, but still hard to grasp and BIZARRE. Sometimes it feels easier to go back into hiding and avoid 'them'. But we can't give up. Keep on keepin' on Patrick!
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