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[Jennifer5]

Glad to here that you're back together. ...Keep us posted.

[SolInvictus]

Will do, y'all - thanks so much again ((Hugs))

I just hope he doesn't move away permenantly - if he does, I may have to convince him that I'm willing to go the distance to be w/ him. I understand his difficult situation: major sickness in the family & he wants to help them out. He asked that I be patient right now & I agreed - at least I know he loves me, and I hope we will have a continued relationship together.

Definitely keep y'all updated :-)

[Jennifer5]

Just remember, hang in there... no matter what we're all here. Hope everything goes alright with who ever his relative is.

[SolInvictus]

I am hanging in there & his dad is sick. We're still getting along well & if he'll allow it - follow my man wherever he goes.

[SolInvictus]

Well, my bf is going up to take care of his dad in his hometown a few hrs away. He says he needs to do this alone & I shouldn't have to wait on him.
I replied that I'm a fighter & not giving up on our love. I'll keep ya' posted as things progress.

[pnggrad79]

sol,
Blessings on you and your bf. I hope things are going to get better with his father. Are ya'll going to stay in touch or is communication not on the agenda?

[SolInvictus]

Yeah, we'll probably talk by phone or email for now. In regards to our relationship, I don't know where it will go. I do wish the best for his father & thank you (this includes all of you here @ Soulforce) for the continued support and friendship.

[tx_gaydemocrat]

yes, please keep us posted! I believe this is just a testimony to how prayer works...thank God its not as bad as first believed.

[SolInvictus]

Amen TX. Thank you all & Thank You God :-)

[MJ4JC]

hey what i tell myself when such things happen is...

"God he was totally awesome! But this means only that You have someone better instore for me!"

Look towards the future! If you think "he" was great.... God has someone better. My friend matt once said that dating (doesnt matter how long) is finding out an answer to one question and that is "Is "he" the one I am to marry?" If he dumps you, then its not a failure its an answer and that is "NO" SO dont look at it neg. look at it has a positive thing... an answer to the question and the fact that God has someone better for you!!! And who knows "he" may just come back into your life.... pray for patience and peace during this time of suffering. GOD will never adandon us to ourselves. He is always there with open arms!! HE LOVES YOU and you have so many lovely and adorable guys and girls in Christ here to support you and encourage you in His Word everyday. So come in and sign on and someone should be here to comfort if not remember I am praying for you. AND i mean it. I DONT just say it to be "a good Christian". I am a prayer warrior!! PRAYER can CHANGES things!!!


Your friend in Christ,

MJ <>< 2 Corinthians 4:8-18 (good verse)
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[Zerbie]

I believe it's true, certain things are meant to be, and life will finagle until they get that way. If this is *the* one for you, Sol, it will work out, perhaps not now, but later.

It's incredibly difficult when something like this happens early in a relationship. It can wreck the newborn relationship. I once met someone who I thought was a great match and who I had great times with, and a few weeks into it, his mom died. He had to leave town to take care of the estate, and of course there was all the emotional/familial chaos to deal with. We emailed once, and then I never heard from him again. I met my husband two months later. So, you never know. It could be this guy, or there could be an even more suitable match for you getting lined up for the future. Whatever life brings, I too wish you much happiness, enjoyment, love, and peace, along with all your other soulforce friends.

[JoeyNTerryLvJesus]

Hey guys and gals!
I am new to this forum, so I just wanted to take a minute and introduce myself. My name is Joey. I am 29 years old and I live in Dalton Georgia with my partner Terry. I love to read, listen to music, and watch movies. I really have been enjoying the posts that I've been reading, and I'm eager to get to know all of you wonderful people! Hang in there Sol. I think things are gonna work out between you and your boyfriend . He seems like a wonderful person. Mike I agree with you buddy. Prayer absolutely changes things. I have been told that I'm a prayer warrior too I think we could have a lot in common. Well I'm gonna go for now. I can't wait to start hearing from everyone!

In Christ's Love,
Joey

[SolInvictus]

First, welcome to the forum Joey. This is a wonderful place to be.

Next, big hugs to all of you here. I will take your advice & words of wisdom to my heart & your words are of great help, truly. If my bf & I do not work out, then at least, like you all said, someone better may be on the way.
Hey Zerbie, thats awesome about you & your husband! Very inspiring.

Peace, Love, & Blessings to Everyone!
Sol

[SolInvictus]

Well, we are seperated as a couple, and agreed to be close friends. Strangely, I feel a certain peace about this situation, and I do not regret loving him. He made my life better, and we had something special, which I hope may kindle again in the near future.

Please keep me in your prayers, and, as always, thanks for the continued friendship and support. Peace & Blessings to all.

[Vanessa White]

Great for you, Sol. No regrets, just knowing you had that love, and as Zerbie said, if it is meant to be someday, it will be. Other things may be in store for you. New, great, magical things. Grieve as you need to, take care of yourself, and be open to what is coming down the road. Best to you today and always. Peace and

[SolInvictus]

Thanks Vanessa ((Hugs)).

Yeah, hopefully Mr. Right will arrive soon.