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Old 11-18-2008, 04:54 PM
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Recently I have been called Kat, and I now can't seem to break those friends' habits.

My sister dated a girl for over a year, and I was the only one in my family who supported where her heart led her. I felt close to tears so many times with how horribly they treated her after my mom and stepdad found out.

One of my best friends will be kicked out of his house on his 16th birthday (April 19, the National Day of Silence) for dating a boy. His parents found text message correspondence between him and his boyfriend and I could only hold him as he had to begin planning for a bleak future.

I could not stand idly by as this hatred and bigotry tore apart those that I love. With my own openness to either gender but a boy in my heart, I cannot help but feel an overpowering empathy for the plight of those in similar positions as those mentioned above and my own. I am in the process of pioneering a Gay/Straight Alliance at my high school. It will be one of the first in my state, and I can only hope that my own efforts to provide a safe haven for my fellow GLBT students will not be thwarted by a close-minded administration.
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Old 11-18-2008, 05:11 PM
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Welcome, Kat. Sorry to hear about your friend. April's a long way from now. Maybe they'll have a change of heart.

Thanks for being a good friend to him.
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Old 11-18-2008, 05:14 PM
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Welcome aboard.

I am glad your friends have someone like you around. I also hope you get a gay straight alliance moving in your school.
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Old 11-18-2008, 06:26 PM
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Thumbs up thanks Katherine

Thanks so much for your courage and compassion Katherine "Kat" !!
What state are you from?



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Recently I have been called Kat, and I now can't seem to break those friends' habits.

My sister dated a girl for over a year, and I was the only one in my family who supported where her heart led her. I felt close to tears so many times with how horribly they treated her after my mom and stepdad found out.

One of my best friends will be kicked out of his house on his 16th birthday (April 19, the National Day of Silence) for dating a boy. His parents found text message correspondence between him and his boyfriend and I could only hold him as he had to begin planning for a bleak future.

I could not stand idly by as this hatred and bigotry tore apart those that I love. With my own openness to either gender but a boy in my heart, I cannot help but feel an overpowering empathy for the plight of those in similar positions as those mentioned above and my own. I am in the process of pioneering a Gay/Straight Alliance at my high school. It will be one of the first in my state, and I can only hope that my own efforts to provide a safe haven for my fellow GLBT students will not be thwarted by a close-minded administration.
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Old 11-18-2008, 10:28 PM
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Smile Welcome to our forums, Katherine.

I think it's great that you are supporting your sister. Sexual orientation is not a choice, and we believe that it is a gift from God.

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Old 11-19-2008, 06:29 PM
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Welcome to SF, Kat. I'm sorry about the young man being kicked out of his home. It's really sad that parents would throw their children out o the street because of their sexuality/gender. How is your sister doing? Keep working in your school and educate your peers about GLBTQ issues.

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Old 11-24-2008, 07:06 AM
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I'm from Oklahoma, and according to research I've done there are no registered GSAs in the state, but one of the friends helping me start it heard of one nearby, so I'm holding out on hope.
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Old 11-24-2008, 07:14 AM
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My sister's doing pretty well; she and her girlfriend broke up this last summer because of college/distance issues so the parents have for the most part forgotten it, though some bigoted comments still occasionally slither their way into conversation.

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Welcome to SF, Kat. I'm sorry about the young man being kicked out of his home. It's really sad that parents would throw their children out o the street because of their sexuality/gender. How is your sister doing? Keep working in your school and educate your peers about GLBTQ issues.

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Old 11-24-2008, 09:44 AM
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Welcome, Kat. Glad you are here.
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Old 11-24-2008, 06:01 PM
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Welcome Kat, glad to have you here!
Your friend, sister and community are very lucky to have you.
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