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I'm glad for Barney Frank's statement. He does well in expressing his disappointment with Obama's choice and responding to Obama's justification as "irrelevant." http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/2008/12/18/7504 Steven |
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The mayor of San Francisco- Gavin Newsom- was on Rachel Maddow this evening and made a salient point.
He noted that asking Warren to speak was tantamount to rewarding him for his stance against gay marriage as well as being a very tough pill to swallow for the couples who's rights are in question. I don't think Obama 'get's' it, that is, unless he is trying to shuffle the deck for his next election. In that case, his action could be viewed as pure politics. Then again, Obama mentioned Warren on the at the beginning of his autobiography. Obama, it could be posited, is simply playing out his own likes and dislikes and the larger matters of symbolism are lost on him.
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I agree with the point that this position just rewards Warren's positions, including his outrageous statements of homosexuality in general. However, Obama has stated, time and time again, that he would try to bring everyone together, so it shouldn't be any surprise he would pick someone such as Warren (who could add ex-McCain supports into Obama's ranks).
Personally, I believe that Obama's choice is not a sign of things to come, but negates the support that the gay community gave to him. Also, "Fierce supporter of LGBT rights?" That is why you didn't say anything concerning Proposition 8 until the last opportune time...
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I will put more weight on Obama's actions than his choice in this matter. However, I'll be watching a bit more diligently and grading a little more harshly because of this choice. Obama has publicly said he will work to repeal DOMA and DADT, and that he is committed to passing a Federal hate crimes bill. If those get delayed too long, it will make me suspicious and lose some respect. With the backlash from the GLBT community, I also feel Obama owes us a better explanation and some recognition of how we feel about his choice. His "I'm the dad thats why" isn't going to work with me on this one. But again, I'm not going to judge his first term by this one decision. I've lost all respect for Warren with his outspoken anti-gay opinions, his arrogance and self-righteousness and his support for Prop 8. He's just the second coming of Jerry Falwell.
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I agree. We shall see what happens in the first term... though I will probably be in Canada or the Netherlands at that time...
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Indefensible because it was 100% AVOIDABLE.
A divider, by anti-gay self definition, was sought out, and is being defended in the name of unity. That defense of the divider, is additionally divisive. Tymejumper is spot on: Quote:
Either Rick Warren is consciously aware of those lies, or is too stupid to understand what lies are. In either case, he’s grossly unqualified to be speaking on behalf of, or in relation to Americans as a whole. And SINCE that’s that case, Barack Obama is either consciously aware it, and his “unity” spiel is just another disingenuous political ploy, or he’s accidentally made a very very obvious and avoidable mistake. And that’s strike two on the LGBT front for him. The Donnie McClurkin fiasco was strike one. Which makes strike two, all the more meaningful.
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Friends,
Andrew Sullivan has been discussing the Warren mess the last couple days. This morning he mentions the visit last summer by Soulforce where Warren spurned dialogue with LGBT people. http://andrewsullivan.theatlantic.co...arrens-in.html Steven Webster |
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Patrick (or anyone), could you give me a lesson on the above? I've either not read about McClurkin or don't remember (I am getting long in the tooth). Thanks!
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Maybe this should be it's own topic (if so i'll make it) but it seems to fit here:
I continue to grow aware of blatant, blood-boilingly obvious unfairness in every day life, and one of those things is that we're expected (like other minorities) to treat our oppression as a "political" discussion, or an "academic" discussion. We're supposed to "tolerate other views" about our very personal and very real PAIN, and it's frustrating to me that other people don't seem to see this. I feel like there's a question in here somewhere about who else here sees it, and how they might get others to see it, but I can't really form specific questions so much as stand in exasperated awe. |
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Perhaps I'm just the nieve girl. I haven't lived long enough, I haven't yet learned how to see the bad in everyone. Instead I find myself always searching for a reason to believe.
I don't like what I hear about Rick Warren, but I do not think that this is a reason to be upset. Reverse it. Make the setting Bush's inauguration, say that Mel White was speaking. Bush supporters would have still wanted him and the GLBT community and liberals would have probably considered giving him a chance. Rick Warren represents part of America that Obama could not reach otherwise. We all scream and shout that we want a President that will bring everyone together, but then continue to complain when we see it actually happening. Again, I'm nieve. I believe that Obama knows that he is doing and I really hope I don't end up disappointed. Please do explain this to me because I do not understand. You cannot have it both ways. Do you want a united nation or do we want to continue on a path of politics based on arguing about who's right and who's wrong? "United we stand, divided we fall." Think about it.
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I think your premise is flawed. Every opinion is not worthy of respect. We don't bring the KKK to the table to talk about race relations. We don't bring anti-Semites to the table to talk about Judaism. We don't bring sexist mofos to talk about gender equality.
Likewise, we shouldn't be asked to sit across the table from anti-gay bigots, people who run ex-gay programs, and people who compare us to pedophiles. We (gay or not) shouldn't be expected to recognize their views as worthy of respect. |
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It won't make any difference. Most gays have never really experienced discrimination and only really begin to understand when they come out or are in the middle of something that comes up against their orientation like wanting to marry. And so a lot of gays know the discrimination is there and there is a risk it will affect them but until it actually does they only have an opinion about things like Rick Warren from a perspective of theory.
Most straight white middle class people have this same perspective and are in a majority and so a selection of Mr Warren is seen as maybe not as bad as it really is, and it is really bad. The reason I think that it really doesn't make any difference is because the opinion of the majority of people in this country towards gay people is already set and one more reinforcement won't even have an effect. Rick Warren is Not going to change his views and most all Americans won't change theirs either. We are only going to achieve a minimal amount of equal rights changes but the change of attitude towards gay people is only going to come through a change of generations, maybe two or three more at the least and so we won't see it in our lifetimes.
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The opinion portion of who Rick Warren is, will never be against the law. No matter how wrong it may be. At this point in time, according to our current laws, he is just another citizen who has done nothing wrong. Therefore treating him like he is evil (even though you may feel that he is) would be wrong and a form of discrimination in the eyes of the public. If we want to see real change, sometimes we're going to have to work with people that we do not like. Luckily, that does not even include Rick, he's only speaking. But when it comes to ending a war, improving education, and getting health care, opinions about equal marriage rights are not relevant. If Obama seeks the opinion of a Rick Warren when it comes to dealing with human rights, then we have a reason to be seriously upset. We have to choose our battles or we're not ever going to accomplish anything.
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I don't think it's fair to choose someone who, spiritually, merely continues the myth that it's the gays versus the religious, and then complain that we're being unreasonable when we don't like it. This was a free choice, there were more qualified people to speak to the entire country, but Obama picked Warren. By "choosing our battles", we give consent with our silence.
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The disappointment is based upon Obama's premise of 'real change'. When you take that with his promise of 'equality' and then measure it against his stated personal belief that he believes marriage is between a man and a woman, then the choice of Rick Warren to participate on this huge historical day (Jan 20th) feels like a slap in the face. In the grand scheme of his term as president, perhaps not a major factor. But it still feels like a slap in the face and I believe we have every right to feel disappointed, discouraged and to let Obama know we are not pleased. We will see how 'fierce' Obama is in working towards equality when we see what he does, or doesn't do, while in his first term. I'm not sure he really thought this decision through and now that he has made this bed, he's going to have to lie in it a while.
The group I'm involved in here in Sacramento is tossing around an idea to gather up all our "Purpose Driven Life" books we bought or received as gifts, write Rick Warren a personal message inside and then borrow or rent a truck and drive them down to the steps of Saddleback Church. We are call it the "Purpose Driven Drive Back". If we can generate enough interest, then we will go forward. If anyone has one they want to 'lose' let me know!!!
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Nate was able to put my feelings into words.
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