Originally Posted by Legendary
The things is we are interested in pursuing two very different careers which may cause us to eventually part ways for a while. As I told him we both have dreams and I want us to make them happen. He cried so hard yesterday and there was nothing I could do about it because I was not there to hold him. I felt so helpless. But as I said we may have to go out separate ways temporarily unless we find a solution that suits us both.Finding a way to do out own thing but still not being too far from each other.
Dreams and different future career paths are just that -- a possibility in the future. Don't worry about those future dreams and career paths now. Enjoy what you have, now.
Unless you are both graduating and going to separate grad schools next year, its not worth your time to worry about what might happed 2 or 3 years from now.
Finally, college is not real life. It's a nice break from reality. When you get out of school you may find yourself in a completely different career field and path. When it comes time to look for a job to pay the bills and allow you to move out from home, dreams and paths change.